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vintsparkler
2024-12-03 11:51 pm (UTC)
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Every day.
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bobsicle
2024-12-04 10:25 pm (UTC)
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Sorry, Dorian. Can't imagine how devastating that must've been.
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vintsparkler
2024-12-04 10:34 pm (UTC)
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Yes, well, I should have known it was going to happen eventually.
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bobsicle
2024-12-04 10:39 pm (UTC)
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Were there signs or just the general nature of this place that everyone leaves?
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vintsparkler
2024-12-04 10:40 pm (UTC)
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Just the general nature of this place.
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bobsicle
2024-12-04 10:43 pm (UTC)
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How long did you guys dated?
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vintsparkler
2024-12-04 10:47 pm (UTC)
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Almost three years, I think.
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bobsicle
2024-12-05 10:45 pm (UTC)
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That's a really long time. I'm glad you guys lasted that long, at least.
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vintsparkler
2024-12-05 10:59 pm (UTC)
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So am I. It was surprising, really, especially given we had some rough spots.
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bobsicle
2024-12-06 02:45 pm (UTC)
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I hope there weren't a lot of them, though?
[ The rough spots, he means. ]
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vintsparkler
2024-12-06 03:58 pm (UTC)
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Eh, there were a fair few, but I would rather focus on the good times.
Would it be odd for me to say I miss some of those rougher spots? It made the relationship more rewarding when things weren’t perfect all the time.
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bobsicle
2024-12-06 05:58 pm (UTC)
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I don't think it's weird. Like you said, it made the relationship more rewarding.
Mine's not perfect all the time either, but we always make it work. There's no such thing as a perfect relationship anyway.
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vintsparkler
2024-12-06 07:10 pm (UTC)
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If you don’t mind my snooping, is Erik the jealous sort?
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bobsicle
2024-12-06 07:22 pm (UTC)
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[ Oh, well that's certainly a loaded question. ]
Well, he is, actually. But he understands our situation here. We just have agreements and stuff. And reserving certain things for each other, too.
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vintsparkler
2024-12-06 09:18 pm (UTC)
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That's good, he didn't seem unreasonable when I met him, but I didn't mention you around him... perhaps that would have made more waves.
I was not good at reserving certain things for my partner(s). I still struggle with it.
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bobsicle
2024-12-06 09:22 pm (UTC)
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Yeah, he's a bit possessive so I'm glad you didn't mention me to him. He's really cool, though!
Sorry to hear you're struggling with this, Dorian. Did your partner(s) ever ask for more things reserved for them?
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vintsparkler
2024-12-06 09:28 pm (UTC)
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He does seem really cool.
Only the one we were talking about earlier... he told me that I wasn't doing enough and asked me what I could do to make him feel special, no one else has ever asked for something reserved for them. So, I worry.
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bobsicle
2024-12-06 09:37 pm (UTC)
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I see. Communication's important in a relationship, so I guess if no one's expressed something, then maybe they're okay not having one.
But you can always ask them if you're worried?
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vintsparkler
2024-12-06 09:52 pm (UTC)
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I like to think so, but I'll be sure to ask.
Thank you for talking to me about it.
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bobsicle
2024-12-06 09:57 pm (UTC)
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No problem, Dorian. You can talk to me about anything.
Is it my turn with the game, by the way?
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vintsparkler
2024-12-06 10:03 pm (UTC)
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I'll keep that in mind.
Yours, unless we're doing two each.
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bobsicle
2024-12-07 06:04 pm (UTC)
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Okay here we go
1. I studied in a school for mutants
2. I arrived here when rainwater has aphrodisiacs in it
3. I'm already a LIES graduate
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vintsparkler
2024-12-07 11:30 pm (UTC)
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3, I don't remember seeing you around this time last year, but I could always be wrong.
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bobsicle
2024-12-09 12:29 pm (UTC)
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You're right, it's number 3. I've only been here for more than 5 months, actually.
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vintsparkler
2024-12-09 01:22 pm (UTC)
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About time I got one of these right!
The only thing to look forward to about being a graduate are the quota challenges- they add a bit of variety.
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Would it be odd for me to say I miss some of those rougher spots? It made the relationship more rewarding when things weren’t perfect all the time.
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Mine's not perfect all the time either, but we always make it work. There's no such thing as a perfect relationship anyway.
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Well, he is, actually. But he understands our situation here. We just have agreements and stuff. And reserving certain things for each other, too.
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I was not good at reserving certain things for my partner(s). I still struggle with it.
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Sorry to hear you're struggling with this, Dorian. Did your partner(s) ever ask for more things reserved for them?
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Only the one we were talking about earlier... he told me that I wasn't doing enough and asked me what I could do to make him feel special, no one else has ever asked for something reserved for them. So, I worry.
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But you can always ask them if you're worried?
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Thank you for talking to me about it.
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Is it my turn with the game, by the way?
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Yours, unless we're doing two each.
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1. I studied in a school for mutants
2. I arrived here when rainwater has aphrodisiacs in it
3. I'm already a LIES graduate
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The only thing to look forward to about being a graduate are the quota challenges- they add a bit of variety.
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